Taking Your Kids Out To Eat

ID-100208309When you have young children, taking them out to a restaurant can be a big task. It can be aggravating and embarrassing. When you have toddlers, they tend to wiggle around and want to climb under the table. The main cause of this is your child is getting bored or just wants to explore new surroundings. If you are debating on going out, look at your child’s current mood. Are they already acting up? If they are having a bad day or acting hyper, you might just want to cancel your plans and make dinner at home. If your children are older and they don’t want to go, don’t force them. If they are old enough to stay at home, let them. This will cause a more enjoyable experience and might just save you some money.

If you decide on going out to eat, bringing toys might just be a good idea. Some of the “kid friendly” restaurants will provide something for the children such as coloring sheets and crayons. The fast food chains usually have kid’s meals that come with a toy. If you are going to, say, a small non-chain restaurant, they might not provide anything, so going prepared might be a good idea. Some ideas of things to take are: books, dolls, action figures, coloring books, crayons, paper and hand held games. If you carry the games, make sure you can turn the volume off. You wouldn’t want to see other’s snicker at you for your kid making noises at the table with the game.

If you have a picky eater, have a backup plan. Make sure you bring snacks in your kid bag in case your child does not eat what is being served at the restaurant. Your goal should be to have an enjoyable experience. If you are going out to a popular restaurant, make sure to see if you can reserve a table. Waiting for a table, then waiting for your meal can bring the mood down and make your outing less enjoyable. Going out to eat should be a special event for your family. Make each outing special so that they look forward to going out to eat again.

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Keeping An Eye On Your Kid’s Online Activities

Online ActivitiesToday, children are learning how to use computers and the internet. Many of the younger children love to watch funny videos online on websites such as You Tube. When they are at that age, you will have to show them how to use the computer. As they get older, they are going to require some sort of instruction on how to use the computer and internet.

The internet is not safe for little eyes. There are many websites that your kids could easily find that you don’t want them to see. They also might use some sort of chat software/website to chat with the wrong kind of people. There are many predators online that you will have to protect your child from. There is a good chance that without instruction, your child is going to come across some inappropriate content online. Now, not all children are going to be put in this situation, but is better to be safe than sorry.

To start out, you should be aware of what your children are doing online. You might want to create a set of bookmarks that they can visit so they don’t have to go out searching. If you know that your children have a project coming up on a certain topic, you might want to find them some websites, bookmark them and show them how to access those bookmarks. This could result in your children feeling some independence when using the computer to do research for their school project. Another option is installing special software on your computer that tracks the activity on your computer. This may be needed when your children are a little older and curious about things they shouldn’t be.

If your child is at an age where he/she uses the internet already, be sure to talk to them on a regular basis about what they are doing. Ask about their online friends and real names of those friends. A big problem is children signing up for social networking websites such as Myspace and Facebook. They get an account and pretend to be older than they really are. They then can be contacted by users all over the world. Children have been known to share too much information online and then be taken advantage of by predators.

Your children are going to want some privacy depending on their age. Try to keep a trusting and open relationship with them so they don’t have to try to hide anything from you. Keeping your children safe online is very important. Be sure to keep your computer safe from viruses too. Having a virus on your computer could result in unwanted ads being shown on your computer screen.

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